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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Cantdecide, Oct 17, 2017.

  1. Oct 17, 2017 #1
    Cantdecide

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    Hi everyone! It's been a while since I last posted, and just wanted to follow up for anyone who had wanted an update. To recap, I'm an American woman, dating an Indian man, facing all the cultural problems you could expect. We were together two years almost. To keep things short and sweet, his parents came to visit, and they were very nice. His mom is lovely, I really adore her. His dad is funny and we butted heads sometimes but he took it in good spirit and so did I. :) So we had our differences, but we respect each other and each other's opinions. However, during the visit, I found out that he was cheating on me too. Who would have thought? At the end of the day, I'm glad to have found out.
     
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  2. Oct 17, 2017 #2
    ashneys

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    Hopefully you gave him a Bruce Lee 'Kick' and Mohamed Ali 'punch' :boxing:

    What a sleaze bag !! While you n his family were bonding - he was busy with his own bonding :smash2:

    Thank god you found all this atleast now.. Have a nice girls night out n say good riddance :beer-toast1::cheer:
     
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    DDream

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    Sorry to hear that the events ended up this way. You have made all the efforts to meet his parents and make them happy by rising up to their expectation levels. But...

    At the same time I am so happy for that you found out his real nature. Thank God.
    Hope you 'treated :grinning-smiley-048: " the cheater well. Kick him out of your way:smash2:.

    Good Luck girl , you deserve better one.
     
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  4. Oct 25, 2017 #4
    Amica

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    @Cantdecide, I am so sorry to hear this. But glad you found out before you married him. *hugs*
    .​
     
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    Rihana

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    His loss. Their loss. They lost out on a wife/bahu who can make aalu parathas and biryani.
     
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