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My Story Of Rebuilding Myself Post Divorce

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by blackbeauty84, Jun 22, 2017.

  1. blackbeauty84

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    Thanks kcb. I will be more than happy if someone takes one step towards moving on after reading this post.
     
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    Thank you teenu..Yes though sometimes we dont know why, everything happens for a reason.
     
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    Very inspiring ! I wish you the very best !
     
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    @blackbeauty84 have seen the confident you emerge through your posts in Il. Remember talking about caterers for your housewarming function. Your groom search,Your blosomming into a happy wife, happy mother. God bless.

    Everyone of us takes a fall, it is how we react or rise from it that mAkes the difference. Hope others find inspiration from this.
     
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    Thanks Sandycandy
     
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    Thank you Shanvy mam...
    I joined IL during the time of my marriage failure and it has been a constant companion throughout my journey till happy motherhood. I have gained, learnt a lot through this wonderful IL community. Thanks for being part of my journey mam.
     
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    @blackbeauty84
    There was a time when women had to put up with all kinds of mental and physcial torture and divorce was a taboo subject.

    You are really brave and you have now accomplished so many things and do hope that you will have a bright future.
    PS
     
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    Dear BB,

    So delighted to read your narrative. I am really impressed with the positivity that your post exudes. Of course, that comes only second to your positive attitude in the darkest of times. If I have to choose one attitude of yours which I love most from this post it would be this:

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    Wish you all the very best always BB.
     
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    Hi BB....
    That's awesome girl....!
    A clear mind and a beautiful heart you are blessed with... Stay blessed!
     
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    I too underwent a divorce. Got married 2nd time . Have small small problems . But recently sorted out those problems too
    After divorce I felt worst . I had undergone so many horrible days with 1st marriage
    I followed few things like u .
    1. I wrote diary n hired it . I vented out everything in that
    2. I got few good friends with whom I spent most time. I enjoyed my time with them. I avoided being idle and would roam with some or other friends to divert
    3. Joined art classes n dance classes
    4. Shifted company n took care of my career
    5. Read lots of books, magazines
    6. Spend time with my friend's baby and she was an angel to save me from depression
     
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