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How to broach the topic of my affair with my family?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by varalakshmi24, Nov 19, 2013.

  1. varalakshmi24

    varalakshmi24 Silver IL'ite

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    Thank you to every one who helped and prayed. God bless you all! logging into IL after 2 years !!!
     
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    joylokhi Platinum IL'ite

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    Congrats - wish you a very happy marrried life:)
     
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    Congratulations! I really like it when people do this! Come back again after their problem has been resolved, and close the loop with a positive note.

    Wish you a great married life!

    OP, if you don't mind, you could share a bit more as to how your parents approved, to help others out there.
     
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    Amica IL Hall of Fame

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    varalakshmi24 Silver IL'ite

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    Dear Dim here!
    Thank you and sorry for the delay in replying! For a long time IL was locked in my office network due to which I could not log in.
    I approached my dad one day to tell him I like some one through a whatsapp message! Of course I got a earful from my brother for sending info as sensitive as this through a message in the middle of a working day!
    My dad responded with alarming alacrity asking me all the details about the guy. From there he planned everything with the family met my guy and things moved at a rapid pace.
    2 learnings
    1. I underestimated my parents' love for me and respect for my choice

    2. I underestimated my guy's ability to be genuine and loving with my parents and win their confidence in return:)

    In short when you keep an issue in your head for too long it assumes mammoth proportions and eats you alive! Thanks again to all the IL members especially the elder gentleman who helped me
     
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    anupama1 Platinum IL'ite

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    :clap2:
     
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    varalakshmi24 Silver IL'ite

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    Slow Claps!!!I relate to this now :)
     
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    talk to them when all are in good mood & together.
     

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