I Landed Up In This Thread..

For law and order, USA is better. There are a lot of social service agencies and law firms that will help you every step of the way. If your husband tries to harm you, his and his family's life will be destroyed forever since law is extremely strict here. No sane person will want to get himself into a hot legal mess that will ruin his opportunities for life (career, finance, loans, everything).

When you do not know what you are doing or do not have resources, this is how you feel - exactly the way you wrote. All your panic buttons will fire off and the body responds with a fight or flight mechanism. When you begin to understand your situation better and begin using the resources available to you, you will begin to gain clarity of your situation and will make some wise choices for both yourself and your daughter.

So think and plan well such that your career and your daughter's future education and such is not ruined because of hasty decisions made with limited information. If your husband got you into financial debts and mess, there will be lawyers to help you out of it.

 

OP, hugs to you.
I haven't read your old posts .
Don't panic. You are in USA. You get help here. Use 911 if needed. You get better help here. Don't run to India. Are you on Visa/gc/citizen. You can do divorce here if you want to. He will not do any thing. First relax a bit and figure out what to do. If you have any friends contact them . If you are scared to live in same house, you can rent another one. Seek help. If you are scared,you can seek help in local police station.
Please understand what else you can done here. Attorneys help you..

Be strong. God will help you. Use all resources available. Don't run like this. You will be ok. You can do it. Believe in yourself.

I believe you and kid will have a better life here in USA. So be very strong and face it with courage

You can file tax return even if you cross April 15 deadline. There will be a fine. Consult a tax professional if you have any concerns. They will help you to deal with those types of questions..for debits there will be interest plus fine.. it depends on what type it is. Seek help from people there. Are you working. Your colleagues can also help. Explore.

You didn't do any crime... don't punish you for others mistakes

If I were in your place I will stay here and figures out what to do. You get better support here as a women. You don't know what happen if you reach India.. Now you are so stressed out. Don't take any decision now. Relax and think...You will be fine

 

Rachu,
Are you ok.. read your old post. Ladies there gave very valuable suggestions on how to deal with credit cards and debts.
Move ahead. Don't look back. Never ever bend for dh. Don't worry about what others think.
Now you and kid are the most important thing in the world... be strong...my prayers and wishes

 

You can get a legal separation in USA that will separate your finances from his. Consult a lawyer about this. You can get the divorce later when you have a case. You should also consult on custody issues. If you run to India and your husband files a case that you took your child without his consent, you will be in a big mess should you ever want to come back (like go to jail big mess).

You can call IRS about your taxes and talk to a representative. They are normally very helpful.

 

Op, I can understand your agony.
Before you go to India, please consult legal experts/attorney and figure out what to be done. Call respective people associated with each account and have a clear idea on whats going on. Complete legal formalities if needed. Else when you come back you may end up in trouble or face more issues. Good luck