Problem For My Cousin Sister. A Person Insulted Her.

My cousin sister , more like my friend in India ( metro city) is newly married . since she was new to the locality , a relative of her is near by. She called them home. That sissy has come it seems. She tried her best to give them good guest treatment. Later when that sister asked her to come to her home and left. She called that sister later to ask about best shopping areas to buy dresses etc. They didnot pick the call.
SHe tried a single time for two days. 3rd day also a single time she tried. She was a bit scared if her relative sissy was fine or not. But to her amazement, she called and fired her for disturbing her. It seems that sissy was not well. My cousin sister is crying bitterly. I consoled her saying that she did not do any mistake as she just called once in a day. Not many times. It is how each person is and react to different situation. It seems she asked for a sorry and kept the phone. I want my cousin sister to get out of the stress she has due to this. She is disturbed after this incident. She says she is scared to call me also. She talks to me in Skype in my mornings . Today she didn't pick the call.

 

now she. Says she is scared to talk to any one or call any one. I Am bothered about this. thanks sunshine, true. Please provide tips for her to face such situations. What ever I say , I feel is less. I just told her to be bold. Life can throw any tough situation. I also said how myself, my mom or her mom have faced tough situations and come out of it successfully. But I want inputs from u all. She is younger to me. Just out of college.

 

Ok. Thanks a lot. True. , women face lots of problem. May be the words told by the sissy has affected her. She called her a person with less manners as she is disturbing them by calling, that her home was not big etc. I feel the words has made her more sensitive. Hope she herself regains . I will wait for her call. Sunshine ma'am I feel sometimes small insults can ruin a person's peace of mind and affect our confidence level. Thanks a lot for ur inputs .

 

Thanks all. Her home is small because of the higher rents in that city.