Do Parents Love Their Children Equally?

It is the unwritten and unsaid rule in parenting. But is it really possible ? There are parents who say they love their children equally but their actions differ from their words. It silently exists in almost all families, but parents don't admit it does. Why is it not possible to love one's own children equally ? Or if it is possible, how to do so?

 

But how is that expressed or said?

Once a child realises the presence of difference , its very hard to shake that belief off.

 

I can understand and I agree on the sense of great fear.

Sharing some general thoughts/questions in my next post.

 

But if parents love their children equally, why are there property related issues in the future? Why are parents not able to share equally to their children? Why prefer NRI children more than the non-NRI children? Why even have more than one child if there will be unavoidable circumstance in the future? Girl vs boy is an argument and its a cultural factor, but even between same genders there are preferences.

There are a few families that encourage younger siblings to take the path the older ones took. For a few it has worked quite well. But some have life-long grudges.

I am very open to the fact that children may perceive something differently. But what could parents do or say or act upon to reduce the long term effects?

 

Thank you for being open about it!!!!

 

Yes, I agree there are parents on the other extreme too.

But how is possible to write a will and split the properties equally? Someone always has to make the compromise.