Privacy In Marriage

Both of us know passwords for all mails, phones etc.
we don't even bother to look into it but it is a matter of trust. Definitely is needed for a happy relationship.

 

Lol. That is actually one of the most frustrating thing. I always go around in circles in that to repeat password.

 

Yesterday he asked while I was watching the cricket match.....I just took letters of the batsmen name and scores from the screen with some #@$ added.......

 

Lol. Hopefully he and you too remember that. I am terrible in remembering such passwords.

 

Same with me... My kids (5 and 3 yrs) know my mobile PW, and how to unlock the screen, as they used to play with my mobile. They also know their dad's mobile PW btw. It is not a secret anymore!!!

Now I know the reason, why your H needs to change PW every now and then.... OMG, who will remember such PWs... For me, I can't even remember the most simplest PWs.

 

I just suggest....he remembers them,he has a system
He also writes it down in some secret place for me .

Last one I remember...the cute ones initials ,the other ones initials,the cute ones score #@$ at the end .

 

No doubt, we remember the cute ones. A great way of remembering PWs.

 

It's best both spouses know each other passwords cause it shows mutual trust and nothing to hide.

 

let me tell u this case-one of the divorce case my attorney friend handled for an indian couple here ( both working for an indian IT company here)- the hubby lived a double life.....had one mobile for wife n another for mistress, the wife didn't even know about other mobile..teh bank account he shared with wife didn't have much that money in it and off course the wife knew all details of this account-pin, password but he had another one, which had lot of money in it which the wife didn't know...n his plan was to divorce wife n marry the mistress ( another indian gal - apparently they met through facebook )eventually....but the wife one day randomly saw his husband with some other woman on a weekday afternoon - she just returned home from office just like that as she wasn't feeling well..she saw the mistress n her hubby near their apartment leasing office ...she was thinking her hubby is working hard in office..lol....she got suspicious n hired a detective...then all details started emerging....n she filed divorce before he could as she was also making almost same amount of money as the hubby...he even was physical with both wife n mistress.....he n mistress (another indian gal who looked very very traditional from a small town in india but working here onsite ) were waiting for the right time for him to file divorce as the mistress's divorce was just about to go through n she wanted to settle some financial matters with her ex and didn't want to get dragged into some adultery kind of mess.....

when the wife confronted her hubby after all details emerged, he told his wife that he didn't like her overbearing controlling nature and also he was no longer attracted towards her n was eventually going to file divorce !!...the mistress came across as a very docile quiet bhartiya nari abla helpless kind of woman !!

anyhow, little bit of space /privacy is required in every relationship whether husband wife or siblings or parents otherwise the relationship gets suffocating !!

So here this woman thought she had full control over all her hubby's info - phone , bank passwords etc but see, her hubby although pretended to be very nice on face, hated his wife's controlling overhearing , too much interfering nature in his every part of life n was planning to divorce his wife for a very docile quiet bhartiya nari abla helpless kind of mistress !!