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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Jun 22, 2016.

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  1. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    A general note to people who start threads - if you want to read only responses that agree with you, then add a note to that effect. Will save all some time, and save you from having to read opinions that differ.
     
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    I wrote something like that but chickened out and deleted it! :cheer::cheer::cheer::clap2::clap2:
     
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    Rihanna, analogy is not apt...reaction/crticism (which always done behind the back or subtly) from realtives is very different than open discussion on internet, where everybody gets fair chance to put their point of view whether in favour or in against of norm.
    Besides now you can understand that she had all the rights to crib about her relatives reactions/criticism :)
     
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    :fearscream:tum bhi murgi!!!!:screamcat::dizzy:
     
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    Hi all, nice to see a thread here for chit chat. Been peeping in again for a bit.

    Asked for my post in one of the threads to be removed given that the OP had mentioned wanting to do himself in.

    When will I ever get over this foot in mouth disease?
     
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    sbonigala Platinum IL'ite

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    Dear Guesshoo,

    Not sure why you chickened out. You dont have to.
    Its an open discussion. Had I not been open to people's opinions I would not have started a thread in the first place. I am not expecting people to agree with my thoughts and opinions. I understand and accept that each person has an opinion to which he/she is entitled to.
    Thread is open for a discussion so that we know different thoughts on something that's a hot topic in the world.
    Just as I expect people to respect my opinion, I would respect other's opinions too.
    So please feel free to share your thoughts.
     
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    Why would munnas want to leave mummy papa?
    God forbid the witches they marry try to turn them into men/adults.
     
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    Is this guy even mentally stable? He has illusions about his privileges and on top of that he comes on here and threatens to commit suicide.
     
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    Well, I am right now remotely involved in the finalizing proceedings, and arrangements, negotiations, discussions, of one distant nephew's marriage. Here in IL we discuss things and such cases have us asking those questions; even I couldn't help ask the guy how old he is.

    But, if we put aside these valid thoughts of equality, and "her parents also put in effort" "she also misses her parents" etc., the thing is not much has changed in many parts of India. It is likely the woman's side knew how modern the guy's side are, and still went ahead with the marriage. She must have tacitly agreed to a life of joint family, sharing the kitchen and so on.

    What I found incongruous was a guy who is unable to handle the wife who won't stay in joint-family, is savvy enough to get online, find IL, and post in it, along with updates.

    I am keeping my big mouth shut in the real life marriage proceedings. Couple of times typed in stuff and erased on whatsapp.
     
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