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My Brother - A Superdad And Superhusband

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by lukywife, Oct 10, 2016.

  1. blankspace

    blankspace New IL'ite

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    Congratulations to your family :)
    A baby is always a bundle of joy
     
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    Jazmine83 Gold IL'ite

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    oh dear..why are people so upset about using the word "super"

    - I am super, I have flat abs & I have always worked at it
    - I am super, I had the courage to leave a cheating spouse
    - I am super, I work hard at my job dominated by older men
    - I am super, I am 33 but ppl still mistake that i am in college..I have kept at my looks
    - I am super, I invest wisely & have sizable asset just from my smartness
    - I am super, I am a good reliable friend
    - I am super, I fell in love again & married the guy who provides respect, love & friendship
    - I am super...because I KNOW that I am a decent human

    No one has to think I am super..I have to first start thinking I am SUPER! first start loving yourself & be proud of your life & its achievements.

    You all are superwomen out there..recognize that first. Tell out loud that you are good at what you are doing. We all strive for recognition in some form or the other...fb likes, fb comments, IL likes. Let's not pretend we are not excited by the likes & +ves around us. First recognize & celebrate us..others can do that or just feel jealous that we are SUPER & PROUD of our achievements

    Hopefully ppl will start getting desensitized to self love soon
     
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    deepthyanoop Gold IL'ite

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    Ragini25 Platinum IL'ite

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    Within sane limits, probably ok. Not actually required, but probably ok.
    When you transcend these mundane things, that's when you truly get powerful (and humble), and these inane adjectives (super as it may be) wont matter much.
    My personal take is - the more focused we are on treating others with respect, and the less we orgasm on these pep-talks, the better it is. Again, its my personal take on it.
     
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    Jazmine83 Gold IL'ite

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    Like I said.. No one has to call you SUPER. No one has to like ur pics or like ur comments.
    It is something YOU feel and you don't need others to agree or validate that feeling.

    and we cannot dictate when one can feel super or call themselves or others super. It's their mind, their choice, their life.
     
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    Op, your brother has set an example . really happy to read ur post.
     
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