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Discussion in 'Life Without Spouse' started by cheenu123, Jul 6, 2016.

  1. DXBDesi

    DXBDesi Silver IL'ite

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    All the best prayers and wishes to you, you are strong and will make it :)
     
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    Thanks for your kind words dear friends. Offcourse there are bouts of extreme frustration & helplessness when I accidently come across profile of my DH & people related to him who ruined me. To keep myself sane, I have blocked all people related to him from my phone & social circle. Once I have a new job, I will even change my number. I'm not doing this as an act of fear, I'm doing this because I know, at times, I get very vulnerable. Therefore, I will wipe away all such triggers.
     
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    cheenu123 Gold IL'ite

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    Hi Friends,

    I have an update. I appeared for an interview recently and fortunately, I have got the confirmation! This new job is way better than the present one. Finally it seems that dawn is here.
     
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    Congrats!
    That is so heartening to hear!
    Everything will fall into its place, and good luck to you!
     
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    Congratulations Cheenu!
    This is great news.
    cheers girl....:beer-toast1:
     
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    Dear Cheenu,

    Hugs to you baby. Just to remind, Life doesnt end with a marriage. Its just a part of life. You have many more roles to play. Rebuild your nest with a strong heart.

    It takes time to heal, but it definitely will.
    Trust Lord. Recite the name of any of your favourite God/true saints like Saibaba. Peace will surely come through your way.
    Just read some true spirit of fighting episodes at websites like thelogicalindian, thebetterindia and so on. It will surely motivate you. Dont feel that you are alone. Everyone in the world is facing some issue or the other. So stay strong-willed.
    God bless you a peaceful happy life.
     
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    Thats great....really happy for you...Just read these lines and thought of sharing them with you:

    BROKEN MIRRORS can become one of the most BEAUTIFUL MOSAICS

    on ceilings and walls.

    BROKEN to become BEAUTIFUL.

    GOD can REPAIR and RESTORE our BROKEN LIVES..

    and when RESTORATION is not in HIS plan

    expect HIM to REPLACE what has been destroyed with something even more BEAUTIFUL...


    Godbless.
     
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    kcb IL Hall of Fame

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    Hearty Congratulations @cheenu123
     
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    Hey OP,

    If i could just reach over virtually and give you a hug, i would!

    Looking at your posts initially, it was very saddening but now as i read the above, i just feel so happy for you. And proud as well.

    Congrats dear. Wishing you all the best things in life!
     
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    Its not fear.Normal process of moving on.

    And keep posting about your life.I often come here to hear from you.
     
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