Infrequent Sex

I am at same stage op.Frequency went down from 2 times a day to one in a week.
Is there any financial /job related tension in house?

 

Neither financial nor job related tension !!

In many cases, it is the MIL tension which brings down the frequency to once a week !!

 

Very true somone constantly monitoring somone who stays under the same roof is a sex killer.

 

I am not understanding how a family member will become a sex killer. Will u avoid kids if they are not accepting the mingling between you and wife/husband. Sex is very important and a satisfying good session can be an important in your healthy relation between you and your wife/husband. But you must create chances and must utilize it well if you guys are not alone. if one is not success then try for making another chance. Please dont avoid parents/kids for just to have sex .

 

Hi Nandita,

Do you feel that accessing erotic sites calms down the situation?

 

Hi Nandita,

Do you feel that accessing erotic sites calms down the situation?

 

I think it helps to fantasize and consequently helps one to get aroused. And a relationship is fired up esp., where sex has cooled down, boring or dull due to it becoming predictably routine.

 

yep but it depends on mood of both. moreover reading or flipping through the stories all depends on individual moods m interest. most of the time it ll be killing the precious time while going through the stories.

there are other means rather than stories to get fire again

 

I have assumed that the couple is otherwise normal except that for boredom or lack of interest (for various reasons). In such a case erotic stories may suffice. Then there may be several other methods depending on the need.