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Husband: dont act like you have mastered by giving birth to 10 babies

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by mirrorimage, Apr 6, 2016.

  1. FemaleAdda

    FemaleAdda Junior IL'ite

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    dont expect husbands to cooperate more than that.. they dont know it.. they think childbirth ends as soon as you come out of the hospital room.. get someone who understands.. mom, sister, or a nanny..
    you are low on energy and will now..
    hubby will be there.. when you get better.. make him learn and do everything then..
     
  2. sslkgpaa

    sslkgpaa Gold IL'ite

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    I guess by definition dirty diaper means #2. Otherwise it is called a wet diaper.
     
  3. shreyashreya

    shreyashreya Junior IL'ite

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    bang on reply,kudos:clap2:
     
  4. sokanasanah

    sokanasanah IL Hall of Fame

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    Hmmmm, one wishes that men would be tad bit more sensitive, but then there it is. I enjoyed some of the retorts above, but I am partial to Ri's view. Try to avoid angry responses, prolonged quarrels & escalation when you are both sleep deprived and cranky along with the baby. Try appealing to him as a father, rather than as a man or as a husband. Maybe that will help!

    Your husband might enjoy this.
     
  5. sokanasanah

    sokanasanah IL Hall of Fame

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    BTW, your husband asked me to send this to you to cheer you up. Apparently he is having trouble with interweb access.:lol:

    தென்றலாய்
    என்னைக் கவரந்தபின்,
    பெரும்புயலாய்
    மாறி நீ -
    பருவமழைபோல்
    கண் சிந்த,
    மயிலாய்
    மாறி நான் -
    வண்ணத்தோகை விரித்தால்,
    கருங்கணையாய்
    மாறி நீ
    பாய்வது ஏன்
    கண்ணே?
     
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  6. JustAnotherMom

    JustAnotherMom Platinum IL'ite

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    @sokanasanah So, this is where you give translation also :neutral:
     
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  7. sokanasanah

    sokanasanah IL Hall of Fame

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    Hmmmm, maybe I will let someone else do the honors?:oops:
     
  8. jskls

    jskls IL Hall of Fame

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    OP, not to offend you or to support your insensitive DHs remarks, just think about it 'patthu kuzhandai pettha' will you not be super experienced to handle it all. First delivery is really hard with second child generally one gets better prepared.. Wrong place wrong time wrong usage. No offense intended.:.Once you can go out say in 3 weeks please find time to take a walk out and get time for yourself. Take care

    Looks like Soka is penning poetry for the images in the haiku thread.
     
  9. sokanasanah

    sokanasanah IL Hall of Fame

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    There's a haiku thread with images somewhere?:thinking:
     
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    jskls IL Hall of Fame

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    Coincidence maybe good poetry though!
     
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