Issue in marriage

Arrey JAG, I did read it. The 'clarification' I was seeking was of a different order. Let's just say that I am not entirely confident of the OP's writing here or in her text. I am not sure how considered / offhand / casual it is. Ideally I want to see the text.

She followed that comment by:

All I see is a foolish, emotional young woman, probably in her early twenties, who has some growing up left to do.

I am trying to be discreet, but you won't let me! :rotfl

Look, the big freak-out is because sex, even if only of the imaginary kind, is mentioned. As far as I am concerned this is just plain stupid. Sensible adults should be able to laugh it off and teach this girl how to behave, gently.

 

But we believe all that she accuses her inlaws and hubby of?
Its ok to be skeptical..I am with many posts ..but when I question the credibility of the post..I question the whole. Very rarely do I pick and choose portions of it. I was just intrigued by ur argument.
Cheers Soka..more battles for another day!

 

Yes, that is the point, Laws don't get liberalized as fast as people could.
YellowMango said in the very beginning (before the OP received the annulment notices) that the courts will take these accusations seriously and suggested the OP get the good lawyer soon and fight.

 

Laks,

I don't know what to say.
But thanks for that update.

 

sokanasanah,

I don't know what to tell you also so I better shut up.
That "perception" was ambiguous to me. My attempt was a slight nudge to convey and clarify


your perception after seeing a lot of experiences (are they all in IL?)
highest point in bell curve of perceptions aggregated (are they again all from IL?)

Nothing to do with the original post or the context.
Just a slight nudge ..errr, there is more out, out, out there in the open that you will be thrilled to know how much things have definitely changed albeit not reflected in IL. Just for you to be acquainted with the amazing people and extraordinary cultural revolution that is happening in social media and community building around social bonding. And yes all in India ...

(shut up Aria now)

 

Not necessarily. For the purposes of analysis, I simplified the situation.The only thing I'm considering is that she says they sent a divorce notice. I am provisionally ignoring all else. As always, scientist that I am, everything is subject to reevaluation in the light of new information.

 

Please don't. Some of us need to hear from more Arias of the world.

 

Stories or statistics perhaps?

 

None but submission
Yes, you are right.