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It happens only at In-laws's house

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by coolpinky, Mar 6, 2013.

  1. chillbreeze

    chillbreeze Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Exactly Exactly..but my sil doesn't even light diya or switch on light in her place. She just comes here morning itself and goes after dinner. Whereas, I have to be involved in preparations, cleaning and cooking from atleast 3-4 days before the festival:rant
     
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    bubblygal Platinum IL'ite

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    wow when did this slandering thingy happen?I am mia!:)I loved only one answer speak to my hand!I am going to do that :) lol
     
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    Can I hope the MIA was because everything's peaceful! My fingers are crossed....
     
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    Hi everyone, I am writing after so long today!

    Home is usual and MIL is same with her weird ideas! Yes, I have become more mean and sane! :biglaugh:twisted:
     
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    Whatever keeps you sane!
     
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    Hey ladies, stepped down from mod post just few seconds ago because of some personal commitments. Please use the report button for quick action. I won't be logging in or seeing pm for the next few days.
     
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    DKI Platinum IL'ite

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    I was not allowed to touch the pickle or curd at home when I got my periods....they would get spoilt. But I was asked to put kolam (rangoli) and light the vilakku at home for Karthigai 2 years later. WHY? So that the neighbours wouldn't feel sorry for my MIL. GRRRRR.
     
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    MIA is because i am making things peaceful for me :)!Thnx Arch :)
     
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    Anitap :(, i hope you come back soon!however do be in touch!Will miss you!
     
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    Well thats a usual sstory at inlaw's house. U are treated as untouchable as per their convenience. My MIL will ask me not to touch the pickle in periods and asks me to take bath before going to kitchen. But when it comes to SIL's regular arrival (as she comes every alternate day or as per her convenience), I am expected to do be a good host and cook everything! That time MIL wont bother if I am having periods but that I should cook everything possible for SIL.
    Now I am mean, I make the maid cook which is never as per MIL's expectations!
     

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