ANY GOOD NEWS ????? I am fed up of this Question HELP PLEASE

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  1. sumalynux

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    ANY GOOD NEWS ?????

    I am fed up of this question...

    Starting from my maid to Colleagues X neighbours, X colleagues,friends,relatives.....

    Anybody who sees me, this is their first question.....

    I understand when a friend/relative ask, who has seen me after long time...
    But people who asked same question 1/3 weeks back, ask same thing
    again, makes me go crazy....

    I convince myself when oldies ask and give free advice/lecture.. What
    irritates me most is Not-so-close-young friends/relatives ask this again
    and again... What is their height of curiosity in others life ?????

    (Little background about me)


    I am married about 4.5yrs back, Software Engineer....Decided-no-kid till 3rd yr of
    anniversary. Once we decided 2 have kid, went 2 gynec for regular check up and
    learnt i have PCOS, from then under treatment under best Infertility specialist.

    Conceived once, but lost in 2.5 months(miscarriage)

    Now in 2ww with IUI....


    Treatment, emotions i can handle.. But cant handle this
    ANY GOOD NEWS ????? irritating questions.....


    Any suggestions how to shut them ?? I dont care/mind being
    rude/sarcastic in my answer.. Bottom line, next time they
    should not ask that question again.....
     
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    heron Platinum IL'ite

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    Losers: Any good news?.....
    You: Yes!..India won!

    after a week
    Losers: Any good news???
    You: Yes!..India's GDP increased....

    Losers: Witsend
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Suma dear I can understand your feelings because when newly married I have also gone through the same. Now people ask this question to me for my children. One cousin of me used to irritate me asking me whether you son is planning. Saying pray to God. and all kinds of advises. As it is people who dont have children are worried about the same and if someones ask this question they feel more worried. Dont know why people dont understand others sentiments.

    Anyway dont worry dear, just have faith in God and you will surely conceive. All the best to conceive
     
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    I do this many times who asks me in FB or gtalk chat...

    I say, yeah good news is "m blessed with a loving dh, and life is going good"

    Then they directly ask "are you pregnant.. dont delay, have it soon lecture:bonk
     
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    vidukarth Platinum IL'ite

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    I had a friend asking me this everytime i see her, i talk to her and see her almost every week.. so once i told her, if there is any, you will be the first one to be told.. she stopped asking me after that...
     
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    Hi Suma,

    Gud that u ve poured ur worry over here in IL... ILites are always thr to help us to come out of any situation easily... And am not here to give you suggestions ..y don't u take it as a concern they have on u.. anyways i feel like itstead of telling them in a rude way, u can tell like "Plnning... plannnnnnnniiiiiiiinnnnnnggggggg.." and just move out from that place rather than u had miscarrige ... ur age of married life.. etc...
     
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    Losers: Are you pregnant?...lecturing...
    You: *Taking our your phone*...sorry! fone from Airtel lady asking to change my ring tone....very imp!..sorry again! *leave the scene*
     
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    Vijima

    Thanks for your comfort words and blessings..
     

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