Multiple IVF failure support Group

Vasu, I read the posts, it's just this journey is so frustrating!! I will call you and speak this weekend do something for this thread vasu

 

Dear Sisters aarth0203, Yettobemom, Radhaparth2000,

Sairam, May Baba bless you with the Little one filling your home with cries and laughter soon.

Will keep you all in PARAYAN Prayers and I am confident Baba would hear our prayers soon.

Thanks, Bestwishes... Baba please change this Multiple IVF failure group to Success group soon by your grace...

 

Dear all

May Goddess Lalithambiga put you all in Laughters soon
My special prayers for all here

Nandri

 

Hi ytm and OP,
May be we are all different in thoughts and the type of work we do. I was working for one of the biggest bank in America as my client and I had no time limits(it's the other way around) had to work till anytime till I complete issues from bank end. Missing a small issue might have the customers not able to bank at all. So it was very hectic and unfortunately irrespective of whichever company I go, do the previous work
Experience I was again and again given the same type of job just for a different foreign bank. And when I took off it was like a huge burden off my shoulders. Obviously "idle mind is devils workshop" and whenever I was idle I used to think about babies. But I tried occupying myself with
Blogging, baking and many new stuffs. It kept me going and also think less of TTC. So again it's all how we feel comfortable! If you feel working creates less pressure then your take should be good! Anyways loads of baby dust to you and TTC ladies here! Will have you in my prayers!

 

Dear Aarth0203,

Sorry for the tough phase you have gone through and I wish and pray that the comming days as to be in the way you wanted it to be . Don't give up. We all will hold our LO soon.

Good luck

 

dear friends

i too include in the above category.
i had undergone two IVF cycle with ot any success.
God is testing me very badly.
i had my second IVF in march.
now i have taken a break from everything , just wanted to
be away from all TTC thoughts and live happily for some time.
but i think God didnt want me to be happy.
i had my periods in the month of June(june 27th)
after that i didnt get my periods,i was planning to meet a Doctor
to find the reason (didnt have any thought of TTC)
then suddenly two weeks back i had some changes in my body,
like increase in breast size and those things.
(i am not taking any medicines.)
these changes again induced the thought of pregnanacy
and i was very happy and when i tested today the result was
a big negative.
i am totally depressed and sad today.
i feel God is playing with me,at present i dont know what to do
where to go,cried a lot in front of God.
i am sad thinking why God is playing this game with me.
i was happy away from all TTC thoughts but now again i am
into all those things.

please friends pray for me.

 

Dear Vidyashankari sister,

Sorry for the tough phase you have gone/going through . I will pray to the almighty to give you tons of strength to cross this phase to attain motherhood soon. Don't ever give up and all these struggles are just passing clouds in life and for a better future.

It's been close to 1 and half months of delay of your period ? That's something needs to be checked dear . Hope you tested with your morning sample . Do go in for a blood test and I really wish and pray that it should be positive . I would say check with your gynic on this . I know how it will be if our expectation fails and as am in the stage as you can understand it easily . Read your signature again and again when you wanted to give up , after reading am sure you will bounce back .

Take care dear and good luck

 

dear luckwaves,

thanks for the reply which is very soothing and motivating.

i am really clueless as what to do,every time i think everything is ok
and God will bless me a new problem will arise,now its delay in periods.
i never had this problem,i feel very frustrated and stressed.

i wanted to be completely free from all the thoughts of TTC and was,
but from yesterday everything started again,now my mind is not having any
peace,again medicines and other things for inducing periods.

sometimes i really doubt whether God exists.its not always easy to keep
ourselves motivated and go ahead.by the time we calm ourselves God will have
a new plan to disturb us nd keep us stressed.

this time when i saw all the changes in my body i was really happy thinking that
something is happening inside and moreover i am doing 9 thursday sai vrat so was
more confident.

this is not the first time God is playing with me every time its the same case,give me hopes
and then break me totally,once i conceived naturally then after two months i had to abort as
there was no heart beat,in both the IVF i got positive result in the beginning and then
the beta HCG numbers came down.

i want a baby but dont know when God is planning to bless me.

hope everything is going to be alright for all the TTC sisters very soon.
please God listen to our prayers and bless us.

take care dear luckwaves.

 

Dear Vidya,

I have been there. I know how it feels. Be strong, the fact that you have conceived once is definitely promising.
You will get past this phase soon and share the happy news with us very soon. You are in my prayers.