deeply hurt-----need help

I'm so sorry for your condition. Please talk to him slowly and ask his help. I don't want you go for Ego and break your marriage . Have patience and solve your problems with peace.

 

Op
You need rest; both mind and body. Go home. Take a firm decision after you can think straight. Living with a wifebeater is certainly not take ! !
Mega

 

Michelle, don't trust your husband. He is begging you to come home now but isn't he the one who hit you with a belt? Don't go, please! As you said, they may do anything to you after you go back, either in inlaws house or separately. If at all you want to go back, try doing this. File an FIR and put it in writing that if anything happens to you, your inlaws and husband are responsible. Try taking all emergency numbers with you... Police, women support, any friend etc. I'm having a bad feeling about you going back.

 

This is nothing but drama by your husband - to save his face in the society, or, may be a bigger 'game plan'.... It may be difficult to accept at this moment. But do not forget that this beating etc was not the first time. You have gone through this time and again in the past.

This is a very well known step by these kind of people. Please do not get baffled. Be strong and take appropriate decision

 

HI I don't know if this is the right advise, but do not go back to in laws house. Stay with your parents until you are completely healed, don't give in to your husband right away. Tell him the laundry list of what he needs to do to win you back. 1. Get a rental home 2. Start seeing a therapist 3. In laws can't talk to you rudely etc. Start meeting him while you are at your parents house and see if he is working on the list and judge him. If your heart tells you he is working on it and making progress then do the next step of moving in into rental place. But leave immediately at first sign of trouble. The key here is not to give in easily make him work for your attention and work to get you back in his life. If you go easily and willingly he's going to make a game of it where he is mean to you hits you and you go to parents house and he comes to take you back. Squash this. Definitely do not go back to inlays they sound like really mean and weird people.