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What do you do when you are falsely accused?

Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by wishaka, Mar 28, 2013.

  1. wishaka

    wishaka Bronze IL'ite

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    Being avoided like plague hurts especially when the occasion is a wedding and we girls had high plans of thoroughly enjoying and helping around. But it looks like I have to wait for some divine intervention to resolve this misunderstanding.

     
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  2. RajSai

    RajSai Platinum IL'ite

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    Such disappointments happen in most of our lives. As ss24 said, true friendship is becoming rare. Moreover any relationship should have some sincerity, trust.
    Wishaka, I feel you can console yourself only by thinking that she is not worth your beautiful friendship. So do not be feel hurt that you will miss the joy and celebrations in a friend's wedding. It is good you got to know that your friend suspects you. I can understand this itself will be painful. But stay calm, let things take a natural turn. By doing that, you and your friendship will become more respected. As you said, divert yourself. Above all, we ILites are here to understand how precious your friendship should be. We ladies here do not meet / talk with each other. Inspite of that, we get to applaude / console / support each other. So cheer up.
     
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  3. wishaka

    wishaka Bronze IL'ite

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    I am pretty curious about - the snake coiled around lord shiva's neck asked Garuda- his archrival ,How are you?
    Do you know what was Garuda's Answer?:) is this not a tamil proverb? Please can you let know more?
     
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    seethavarma Gold IL'ite

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    Yes ,its a Tamil proverb-you might be knowing the answer too!
     
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    attentivegirl Silver IL'ite

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    I know this is off track from this thread. I am sorry to post here.... but pls tell me the answer, i dnt knw tamil. I was going to send u a pm regarding this. :)
     
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  6. wishaka

    wishaka Bronze IL'ite

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    Thank you RajSai, your words were comforting.
     
  7. wishaka

    wishaka Bronze IL'ite

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    Gotcha...

    This song is from the movie Suryakanthi -
    The lyrics go [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]-
    parama sivan kazhuthil irunthu paambu kettathu
    garuda sowkiyamath
    yaarum irukum idathil irundhu kondaal ellam sowkyame
    garudan sonnadhu
    athil arththam uLLathu
    [/FONT]
    check paramasivan kazhuthil...Kannadasan Hits - YouTube

    We may need the help of Seethavarman and other tamil speaking friends to get the exact meaning.....
     
  8. wishaka

    wishaka Bronze IL'ite

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    Thank you - I unearthed some lovely Kannadasan songs while searching for this. :) but it would be great if you can give the exact meaning of [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]the lyrics ---parama sivan kazhuthil irunthu paambu kettathu
    garuda sowkiyamath
    yaarum irukum idathil irundhu kondaal ellam sowkyame
    garudan sonnadhu
    athil arththam uLLathu
    [/FONT]
     
  9. FE40

    FE40 Silver IL'ite

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    Translation goes as follows:

    The snake around ParamShiva's neck asked, 'Garuda, are you fine?'
    Garuda replied, 'if everyone are in their own places (without interfering others), all things will be fine!!'
    The last line says, There is Meaning in this.
     
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  10. wishaka

    wishaka Bronze IL'ite

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    Thank you FE40 for the translation.

     

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