Extra marital affairs

As you are the one who gave lot of thinking:idea about EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS (which sounds like you are in one such affair or want to come out of it), why dont you explain to us how it happened and what are you feeling!! rather than asking our friends here who do not have any such experiences!!!:coffee

We all are ready for an open discussion...so you start first as you are the one who started the thread!!

 

EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIR is in itself a very broad and generalized term but the solution to that is not like using BROAD SPECTRUM ANTIBIOTICS.

There is no one general solution for it. So, please come up with what exactly is the problem and the details. Only then any analysis can be made and solution given. Now, something that one sees as a betrayal may not be in the opinion of the other. So, it is highly impossible to give a opinion if we do not know the problem.

 

what a piece of crap Witsend

 

DUH!

OP, seems you are looking for some juicy titbits from ILites here...

This is just not done :coffee

 

Raja... pls remain in DUBAI & carry on with ur indepth crappy thinking.

I dont know wht u want to share or know abu it... but yes 2 unstable frustrated mind (preferable idle & devils' workshop) need to get together to do such blunders!!!! and still come to a stable forum to discuss it.

 

Rajan,

Now that the I Lites are willing to listen...

Come out with your story :cheers and lead us!!

 

hi ladies
lets not come to any conclusion untill we hear what raja has to say or wants to know about it.
so come on on girl tell us what is your problem,if dere is one...

anwways i believe its a wrong thing 2 do...as its not morally right whether a mon or woman does it.
some people justify by saying they have a bad,abusive ,rude ,possesive or a partner they dont like,but i would say get out of that marraige first legally and then have another relationship....or else they wouldnt be much differnce in you n your partner,coz both are wrong.

above is just my point fo view on this topic....

jess

 

HI all,

Jess you are correct ...
Well guys its certainly very wrong to cheat somebody ...
And hidden relations are worth nothing ... you cant share the joy and pain of that relationship with anybody and you end up hurting yourself, and all the peace disappears leaving you confused and sick for the rest of your life ...
So please decide first and then do things ..
Anyways Raja .. Let us know what the actual problem is, we are here to help you

 

If we can find a group supporting pre martial affair, we can always find some supporting extra martial affair also.

There could be valid reasons for both.

These things have to be kept secret only. Still in India, both are not acceptable infront of parents and in laws