BB, please do not think that this thread started just 2 days ago is the only place that makes IL unwelcoming to new members. @rgz is the resident troll alert subject matter expert as she is quick to call troll for even genuine problems of newcomers. @Sunshine04 just guessed it this time and didn’t judge. Actually IL mgmt protects old members better than new members in my 3 years of reading. Members like Amulet, rgz come back with different IDs every now and then. But newer members like sandy-candy, Naari, sunburst were not allowed to participate when they came back with new IDs.
Hmm... you are right. But the post seems so casual... like theres a housefly in my tea... theres a Goddamn other woman after her husband... Usually the wives become super ninjas on this subject ... and the op was concerned about the facebook befriending... other than that, most of the posters helped her anyway although they suspected troll.