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  1. Roar

    Roar Gold IL'ite

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    Courtship seems to be better than arranged marriage... but one of the two ( usually the naive) seem to lose logic once they lose their heart... ergo, the wolf always seem to find a way to the prey.

    Patriarchy has now motivated the opposite gender to fight back... its not wrong but it is a war... we will have to pay back ( men and women) in one way or another; for having failed to respect each other and work together.

    It was just a matter of time for this war to begin.. I mean they have exhausted the patience of the patient, pulled until the string broke. It was a ticking time bomb.Sigh.
     
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    Do unto others what you would do to yourself. Sharia - Shariyou - Sharime.
     
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    boochaandi = boogey man

    -a mythical creature used by adults to frighten children into good behaviour...

    In this context I guess it means - trying to overly scare to get one to agree with their point of view
     
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    Scare-child is like a scarecrow ? I recall a decorated tiny bull, with a scary looking man rubbing his drum with a bow, and the tiny bull will shake his head when drummer asked something . Parents will tell kids that the man takes away bad children and reforms them.
     
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    Independent opinionated women have definitely disturbed the harmony of a male dominated Indian society. This is a new experience for Indian husbands and in laws. Hopefully the newer generations will consider opinionated women to be the norm. Hopefully this will also lead to men / IL’s not taking the women for granted, only because there will be consequences ( unlike before). Also the newer generation of In laws will not expect a subservient DIL.


     
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    So is @shravs3 supposed to be a scarecrow or a mythical creature now ?

     
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    Hehe.
    She is a sweet angel
     
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    upload_2019-11-2_10-54-21.jpeg
    Is that thing look like this ?
     
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    I know ! I was just wondering what the comment implied. :tonguewink: Rgz should clarify .

     
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    I think it implied the older husband as the boochaandi
     
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