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Goodbye Amma Dearest

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by Agatha83, Jul 4, 2019.

  1. Srama

    Srama Finest Post Winner

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    Dear @Agatha83 , So very sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences. Prayers for strength at this very difficult time.
     
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    I am really sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. My prayers are with you and your family to give enough strength at this time.
     
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    Heartfelt condolences.
     
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  4. Agatha83

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    Dear All,

    Thank you each and every one of you for your kind words, your heart felt messages, which offered me a lot of peace and comfort.
    I know death is a natural process which none of us can avoid, but having been with my mom for a long time, seeing her slowly sinking, with me unable to do anything and then she suddenly leaving me without a word, put me under a lot of strain, one which I could not cope up with mentally.

    I am grateful to each one of you for the wonderful support you have given me.

    Agatha83
     
  5. Thyagarajan

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    :hello: Dear Madam Sister,
    It is tear gathering in the genesis, moist in the middle & a heavy downpour in conclusion.
    2. My heart goes out to and share in your bereavement for your beloved ever Amma. She remained Alpha & Omega since the moment she created her beloved baby Agatha.
    3. You had indeed immersed your follower brothers and sisters in indusladues.
    4. Fragrance of ponds talcum powder between pallavaram and chromepet used to be extensive that permeate vast space around and I AS A DAYSCHOLAR in 1964, I used to wake up from the local train that I was travelling to reach MIT around 7 a.m.
    Now it would remind me always, your Amma & you.

    May your Amma Soul Rest in peace.
    God hugs and takes in His fold of creations, the moment they achieved His purpose.
     
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  6. Cheeniya

    Cheeniya Super Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    @Agatha83
    I am extremely saddened to hear of your mother's demise. May God help you regain your composure!
    In the last one decade, I lost my lovely mother at the age of 94 and my son-in-law at 51 in a gruesome road accident. I thought I would never be normal again until I did become normal in course of time. Is there a grief that cannot be healed by the passage of Time?
    My Mother departs...
     
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  7. Afresh

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    Mam,
    Such a poignant write up!
    I don't know what to express here, but all i think is that the way you have written this, your true feelings for your Amma would be known to her always with or without you expressing it.
     
  8. Agatha83

    Agatha83 IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Thyagarajan Sir,

    Thanks for your heart warming message. I am sure whenever you see Ponds powder you would be reminded of me and my mom. Thanks again.

    Agatha83
     
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  9. Agatha83

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    Dear Cheeniya Sir,,

    Like my mom your mother has lived a full life of 94 years, and I am sure you would agree with me, age takes a heavy toll on our physical and mental abilities. Life after a certain age takes away the charm out of it. Losing one’s children or their spouse at a young age is the cruelest thing that could happen to anyone, for I have seen my grand parents grieving my father’s death through out their lifetime.
    In our life’s journey meeting our kith and kin, coming together is always a pleasure but departure is always painful!
    Thanks a lot for your kind words and I have regained my composure.

    Agatha83
     
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    Dear Afresh,

    When she was alive, she couldn’t understand a word I said, and the pent up frustration gathering in me for a long time, came out when I started writing a tribute to her. Thanks for your nice post.

    Agatha83
     
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