What To Do When Nothing Goes Right?

Check with the doctor if this could be side effects of the medicines.....or some other medical issue.

Have you tried talking to a counsellor?
If it is depression,get help .
Depression is far more common than people think.

Hugs to you .
Hope things look brighter for you soon .
Make an effort and do keep writing here.
We are here to listen

 

@mimi77 I'm sorry you are feeling like this. Do you think you can see a doctor and ask for help ?
Is there is some family member who will be able to help you ?
Any thing specific which forum could help ?

 

Hi Mimi, since you have not mentioned the core issue, I assume its personal and therefore wont delve more.

Sometimes things happen that turn everything we thought we knew upside down and inside out. Most of us have experienced betrayal of some kind. Or we’ve been blindsided when something ended and we just did not see it coming. Or we thought we knew someone and it turns out we didn’t, not really. The hardest part in all of that is feeling like you cannot trust your own judgement.

But that’s what it’s like when something rocks the foundation of everything you believed you could count on. Was my marriage real? Was anything he said real? Was the love real? Was the family real? I’m looking at this and it looks purple, but is it? I mean, you just can’t trust anything anymore.

The key toward putting your world back together in times like those is just to take it one breath at a time, and to allow yourself to feel whatever you need to feel. Heartbroken. Enraged, Astounded. Depressed, scared. Life is full of curve-balls, and many people are in unfathomable pain.

Whatever’s happening in your world, remember there’s only one you in the known universe. Only one. Feed your spark, and try to trust in your process. Leave room for life to show up with the joy, too. Sending you much love. Sandya.

 

You have to get medical help

 

The signs OP writes about sure seem like health issues. Side effects of prescription drugs, as well as lack of vitamins/minerals in daily intake.
[ However, for French speaking people, malaise and ennui are fashionable to have, so long as life is comfortable, and one can sit in a roadside cafe, look at the world go by, and talk of m&e to the compact dog (poodle/dachshund type), or no one in particular]

 

Menopause - medical assistance
Medication’s side affects - change it
Lack of vitamins, etc in body - try it for a while
Something bad happened personally / professionally - dig deep n find a solution or a way to atleast calm yourself down

Any of these or other reasons can cause depression. It’s better to consult a doc n get appropriate help before it gets any worse.