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Vasectomy Experiences Afterwards.

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by EagerForInfo, May 29, 2019.

  1. EagerForInfo

    EagerForInfo Gold IL'ite

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    Can anyone share experiences of how life is after vasectomy. ? I mean does it affect the health of the person ? Are you still happy or depressed etc. any side effects ? I noticed my husband has become a looot older after getting it done. All white hair just in 6 months ! Doc and I pushed him for it but guess it causes them to get depressed ??
     
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  2. Vaikuntha

    Vaikuntha Platinum IL'ite

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    No idea. Don't know anyone who got it done. Hard for people to talk about it.
    Hopefully someone here will answer
     
  3. Amulet

    Amulet IL Hall of Fame

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    It depends on how old the person is, and his mental state before the event. The Chinese invented procedure, widely used these days, is also less traumatic, and faster healing.

    A 30ish man, after the post op physical irritation is over, eats nutritious, exercises and keeps energy level up, might enjoy the new level of freedom. And even be tempted to “stray off”, and might get opportunities to do so too, if outward condition is good, and his “harmless” condition known. After all, a good looking healthy guy, who shoots blanks, could be very “popular”.
    For the OP’s man, diet and exercise might be in order. If there are no other difficulties, like ED, having more energy could solve the problem. Regular physical exercise could get him there. Send to gym where aunties come to get fitter. Grey and bald never prevents a guy from doing what needs to be done.
     
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    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    No side effects.
    Life was better because of no fear of pregnancy.
    Love life was far more spontaneous and impulsive.
    Vasectomy will improve a good love life ..if there is a good love life to begin with.

    It has no physical side effects.A week of rest is prescribed by doctors.
    For guys who equate fertility to masculinity ,it can cause emotional and mental issues because they equate inability to reproduce with loss of strength and manhood.
    Vesectomy is for emotionally secure men.Pushing a man who is not sure is always a risk.
     
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    strei New IL'ite

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    was also thinking but husband not ready..:( i think it will be lot more easier for us ladies then.
     
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    I gave my hubby time and he finally decided to go for it.Many men take time to make a decision in this aspect.
     
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  7. EagerForInfo

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    When I was having a c section I was ready to get a tubal but my husband wouldn’t let me have it. So I pushed my husband to get vasectomy as doctor said it was dangerous for me to get another surgery.
    Like u said my husband became very old after getting it done. White hair all over.

    but more importantly now he talks we got surgery. If we don’t have a wife we can just pay money to get another wife.
    Scares me. Should have fought to get a tubal ligation during my surgery but my lousy husband starts joking with the nurse saying don’t u want 3 kids honey and the nurse said unless we have both peoples opinion they can’t do tubal.
     

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