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Are We Turning Into Our Mothers?

Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by Vaikuntha, May 17, 2019.

Are we turning into our mother?

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  2. No

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  3. Yes and no...maybe

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  1. Vaikuntha

    Vaikuntha Platinum IL'ite

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    Many cultures have this notion that girls age like their mother, walk like her, talk like her, cook like her, yell like her...the list goes on
    Are we all going to morph into copy of our mothers?
     
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  2. Rihana

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    I yell like her. Though trying to change this.
     
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    Nice one @Rihana

    I thought, I was very different from my mother, but slowly and surely, I am changing into her.
     
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    I’m working and I’ve a young toddler. With all the work stress and handling a child I was irritated and showed my anger one day and I remembered it was exactly the way my mom showed anger when she was overwhelmed with work. I mean ditto the way I shouted, the body language. She was a working woman too.

    Now I step back and pause for a while when I get irritated and I don’t wanna repeat that
     
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    Suddenly one day, you look at the back of your hands. They would seem to be your mother's hands.
     
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    Not sure. But trying to be half as bindass as my mom is.
    But coming to your question I walk like ,talk like, cook like ,yell like my grandma. :grinning: dad's mom. Literal photocopy of her.
     
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    My cousin was taken aback by the similarity, the tone, choice of word everything
     
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    Sure, I use nail polish as religiously as my mom
     
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    Now, I wish I cool like her but I am not
    I resemble my mothers mother
     
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    Even my food tastes the same

    Handwriting is very diff

    Values are somewhat same

    Looks are very diff but aging is the same
     

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