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  1. shravs3

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    Hahaha obviously my husband would run away :roflmao:
    I already told her that my DH might visit me and she replied saying that it should be fine
     
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    You are making me even more nervous :sconf:
    And I’m sure(atleast hope) both of them are not in IL
     
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    :hello:What if you had casually told about IL TO them in a lighter vein??!?
    Regards.
    God’s ways are perceptible though strange.
     
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    Jokes aside, I think this experience of working, and living with roommates should be required learning for those who had not been through this. It teaches how the various personal vested interests, and haggling postures exist in the world of colleagues, and flat-sharers. And improves the tolerances for others within the family who might behave a weebit inconsiderate at times.

    People have busy lives to bother with the arms-length others, and the affairs of others. You treat them with the just the right amount of friendliness (not more, not less) and they will reciprocate; and after a few months or whenever, you'd part and go your ways. The experiences (and lessons) will stay.
     
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    :hello:I agree in toto.
    2. The experience derived in sharing room or flat has always been immense which I enjoyed during those seven years as a celibate. An attempt was made of one of my such experience in the narration posted in
    Behind Every Successful Man ….. Every Sunset Follows A Sunrise.
    3. The rich lessons robust friendship and enrichment of knowledge that I derived in those six long years remain green in memory.
    Thanks and Regards.
    God creates circumstances for one to be away from parents, kith and kin to make him or her mature Fast.
     
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    After a lot of deliberation I have finally managed to convince myself for this one-time sacrifice of posting an honest review in line with expectations of @shravs3 Let me know where to post and I will do the rest though I wouldn't mind posting a pre-approved draft even :)
     
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    How hard is it to talk yourself into such things ? In addition to mattress review, you might also offer a "Good Conduct" certificate, in case the aforementioned mummyji comes avisiting, and puts shravsji in a tongue-tied situation. Plenty of templates are on the web. Here is a good one:

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    I am :roflmao: after reading the whole set of conversation.
     
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    That's a brilliant idea. I will start working on the template right away, just in case, as I have a feeling, your frequently remembering mummyji might be a precursor to her showing up unannounced, sooner than anticipated by her DD :)

    The talking myself into took time not because of the need to post an honest review but my sixth sense telling me that, somehow the spare sleeping bag or mattress is already somewhere in the flat itself, maybe in their bedroom, with the original packing, where it was tucked away safely the day before @shravs3 arrived. For all we know, it might be just a matter of pulling it out of safe custody if and when mummyji shows-up so just saying, not sure how much of an influence we will have by following the mattress approach. Nevertheless, no harm in giving it a try so I convinced myself to go with it, in the spirit of leaving no stone unturned, to secure the territory already in our possession.
     
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