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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Jun 22, 2016.

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  1. armummy

    armummy Platinum IL'ite

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    feeding everyday or occasionally, that is between mother and son ,moreover wife does not stay with them so let them be, why does it bother you so much if they pamper the son.

    labeling and lashing out at everybody who do not concur with you ..i dont think that's a sign of real maturity ...
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Guys, this conversation has gone on longer than anyone expected and hopefully everyone got to say what they wanted to say. OP in the original thread has also requested and got the thread closed. Please let's move on. Thank you.

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    I see two interesting threads in the New Threads section on the right. : ) Both in the Interesting Shares section.
     
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    @Rihana ji are you keeping those virtual fight posts for future reference? it is good if you delete them.
     
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    @Rihana, I have noted that many replies are deleted from this post . I don't remember any fights there.
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    Editing posts ... Seriously?

    @pinky2cute Get well soon. I just noticed your post. Being a very straight forward person wont help a woman in a male-dominated society. The path will be very turbulent for a straight forward woman in a traditional Indian family set up (my own experience as a straightforward person with integrity). I have also learned a lot on how to tactfully handle similar situation to maintain peace from many replies on your thread & other threads. Thinking about the consequences in advance, how to talk etc is also equally important like what to talk. Practice helps.

    I am sure everyone like their own comfort zone, be it me, you or your dh. One can come out of this comfort zone only when that person decides to do so. So allow the kite (your dh) to fly freely in its comfort zone while keeping the thread in your hand . Using the tactics mentioned by the ladies here, you can reduce the length of the thread and make you his comfort zone. That may be a smart and practical way to go. Try.
    Take care of your health. Love yourself.
     
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    armummy Platinum IL'ite

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    I don't know who is moderator here but they don't seem to be bothered by pinky2cute's name calling other posters, I think they are encourage her rude behaviour
     
  6. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    KrishnaPriya, keeping or deleting posts is not under my control. If you think some posts deserve editing or deleting, you can report with a click of the Report icon under each post or send PM to IL_Admin.

    @DDream, I am not the moderator of Relationship or any section of IL. To the best of my knowledge, Relationship forum is moderated by IL_Admin. Editing or deleting posts happens for many reasons, not all of them obvious to us readers.

    @IL_Admin, if it is needed please delete any posts from this thread. For my part, I regret my comment in pinky2cute's original thread that gave rise to many strong responses. I honestly didn't think it would create such a furor.
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    armummy, please, I am requesting you with virtually folded hands, kindly do not drag this here any more. If you feel moderators are not doing something right or enough, please get in touch with them by PM or click Report the offending posts. A box pops up in which you can describe what is objectionable in a post. Thank you.
     
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    Really?? So u 1st starting by commenting abt my post n saying as if as a wife im behind mo ey..really without mnowing truth who r u to judge then? I dont think u r mature for ur thinking and blaming other women n degrading them
     
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    Reported your post too for degrading the poster dragging the post into separate thread.
    Yeah moderator should ban your people from posting rude comments on original posters with half knowledge of the story.
     
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