Up To What Age Can A Man Have A Healthy Erection

Why do you think faithfulness, financial support, understanding during pregnancy cannot be expected from young men ? What really drives this thought in you ?

Women give sex to get love and men give love to get sex - this is an ironically true statement.

When I was younger, all I wanted to do was to be gigolo. What 20 year old doesn't want to have sex all the time - and get paid for it ! Looking back, those were just the hormones and thank heavens I didn't opt for that career. I believe, even if you are married to a Greek God (young or old), after a while the desire for sex will just wane. Its human nature and it's a natural course of progression. IIRC it was Osho who said, when there is love in a relationship, the sex falls away. The desire for a lot of sex is an indicator of lack of love.

I would humbly suggest you look for compatibility and respect in a relationship. Don't think for one minute that you will not have to change after marriage. Both partners will need to make mends in their ways of life to live happily. The older one is, the more set in their ways they are so all the adjustment will probably be from your side. Are you up for this ? Love will happen when it will happen - its overrated anyway. I don't think anyone can be in love with another person 24/7. It goes in cycles. Just the duality that humans are faced with all the time - yin and yang or whatever you want to call it.

An older spouse may also have less faithfulness (hidden mistresses for all you know) and less understanding during pregnancy as they may have been understanding in the past and are no longer interested. What if you and your kid(s) are excluded from an older spouses will? I think there are many other aspects to think about, more important than finding out till when men can get an erection. Other than an older spouse passing away relatively early - this also poses risk of loss of a parent for the kids. Then if you remarry, that will be another set of adjustments.

 

very true. good analysis

 

I don't know much about you other than a few posts that I read on this forum. So don't get me wrong when I say, you seem to be preparing yourself to attract toxic relationships. First you talk about love that started with the Gods, then you want to find such love, but have conditions where you want the other party to leave your money alone. I am guessing unconditional love will have no boundaries. Your requirement of your money being left alone itself is bound to cause you problems, sooner or later.

Looks like your ex was an insecure fellow who tried to make you feel the way you felt. I think its partly your fault.

Also, I am thinking, you think the love that started with the Gods is same as human love. I beg to differ. From what little studies I have done, the love of the Gods is a human representation of Sat-Chit-Ananda. My understanding is that is the love/eternal bliss one experiences when a person is one with the Universe/God/Dhamma/whatever as a result of mental discipline. You will be horribly and sadly mistaken if you want to experience the Love that started with the Gods love, devotion and surrender from a human being.

Most God related things are metaphors, imho. Our ancestors were clever in projecting God in our image. Want to legalise marijuana ? Lets make Shiva smoke it - as if God needs to get high. Need two marry a second time around ? South Indians made the concept that God can have two wives - what God would need two consorts to get His rocks off ? What God would even need the desire to have sex ? Just my two cents.

 

some girls are not wordly wise to know the person is toxic

 

medical marijuana has helped countless kids with epilepsy and patients with chronic pain

 

It describes me too

 

I am not being a troll ! May be you are. I said its partly your fault. I have no way to sugar coat it. What difference does it make if a reply comes from a male or a female ? I couldn't read anywhere that you were only seeking women to answer your question. Talk about discrimination !

It takes two to tango. If, of course, you think you are absolutely not at fault a 100% then that's your opinion. You are valid to have one, like I am valid to have one. It seems you don't want to read honest opinions and are simply looking for a sympathetic shoulder, which IL provides. I know I have cried on this shoulder and it supports well. If my honesty upset you, I apologise for it. Good luck.