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  1. ChennaiExpress

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    Now I am really scared of posting things after reading this.

    I understand there is lack of anonymity on Internet .... I just thought Indus Ladies was a safe space to express ones self.

    I really consider the regulars as a virtual family. :beer-toast1:

    Yet again, we really don't know who we are talking to online.

    I am really scared now .... but it shouldn't be this way.
     
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    This is something to think about and do some soul-searching.

    And there is always pre-nup.

    This is lot to think about.
     
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    S*x in most traditional Indian marriages is only meant for procreating. As far as there is the dikhane waala daanth and a baby jumbo, no one cares if the daddy elephant can chew . And good sanskari lady elephants are not supposed to ask for more. Eat what’s given to them. Or else they are considered wild. And lady elephants are supposed to be like circus elephants. Obey commands ! Do you think they would have the audacity to reject the male if he does not chew his food well ? Hell no !



     
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    Dear poster, an older man who leaves his family for you is very likely to leave you for someone else once boredom sets in. So be careful.
    As far as being intimate is concerned it may vary from individual to individual. But I think boredom sets in eventually. There is no true love in this world. You have to be smart to make your marriage last.
    An older man can be a father figure. Not sure if he would make a good husband.
    The recent marriage of Milind Soman to a much younger woman...they make an odd couple. The girl looks very young though she is 27. He looks like a crazy old man.
    Eventually it's up to you but don't break someone's family if you are so he'll bent on an older man. Just saying since most Indian men that age would be married with kids.

    All the best!!!
     
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    I'm a homemaker
    Not a homebreaker

    I am not odd
    I am the prettiest in
    The ball

    God is Love
    Love is God

    Our house is solid
    Built with
    Mortar, soot and saud
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    @ChennaiExpress if you are marrying an older man because you love him, go for it.
    Love of my life was 30 years my senior. In my early 20's he was well into his 50's and honestly he was the best. Ever. In his 70's now, he may need some 'help' to get an erection.
    He remained a friend over the years and we still exchange post cards for christmas. If you love him, go for it. There is help out there.
     
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    Once a day? I am ruling that out for you. It doesnt happen. You and him are lucky if you have it 3 times a week.
     
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    Well I guess if the man really loves a woman, he will get extra help in that department.

    And if it's 3 times a week, guess I'll have to paint 4 times a week :)
     
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    Surprised really!! there is no true love in the world ? You have not found true love, not even once in your life ? If you have not experienced true love ever in your life so far with any member in your life , I would like to know what do you exactly mean by the word "true love". Please elaborate.
     
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    I would think true love is like unconditional. In the sense, marriage where both husband and wife will stick with each other no matter what.

    In some cases, husband and wife stay together till someone better comes along. That is not true love. That is looking for a better deal.
     
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