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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rajeni, Apr 13, 2016.

  1. Shanvy

    Shanvy IL Hall of Fame

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    @Rajeni i have been silently following this thread from the time it was posted, because at the time you posted i kept myself away from posting in relationship forums.

    what i loved about you is your stand and being strong and following your gut instinct and that is one thing that never fails according to me though arguments go on and on about it

    parents will come around it, it is hard for them too. good for all of you that you did not oscillate in denials.
    you tried and tried a little more but thats it. so now take your time to recoup and enjoy life and soar high. love and live your life

    people will talk maybe until the next interesting matter happens. you chin up and move on which you are already doing..except those twitches and pulls that happen sometimes.. a heavy price in terms of emotional trauma to you and your parents, fjnancial strain and more.. you are a winner shining through odds..

    this thread and few threads show me that i am supportive of my kids, but that i should stand stronger when the push comes to shove society pressure or peer pressure.

    wishing lots of peace, healing and happiness flow into your life.. stay blessed..
     
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    @Rajeni

    Read all your post.
    Amazing strengh you have.
    I should and am learning from you.
    Thanks.

    Don't let people judge you. Those only judge who don't know or haven't been in your situation.

    All the best.
     
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    @Rajeni, this is shocking. I somehow missed this thread. Hugs to you. I can understand the pain you and your parents might have gone through. You have taken the correct decision. Don't bother about the society. The people who gossip will have their own skeletons in the closet and would feel better by talking about other people's problem. They don't deserve any of your or your parents explanations. You are a wonderful and intelligent person. You know how much I and many others love your writing. God has given you that talent of winning hearts through writing. Use that as a healing therapy too. Write whenever you feel low. Lots of love, positive vibes and prayers your way. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Love you Rajeni.
     
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    Hi OP,

    I am new to this forum and I read the entire thread and kudos to ur strength and resolve. It is very disturbing to know regarding the way he treated you and with the indeferrence he treated this marriage!
    But you couldnt have handled this any more better with grace and dignity. You tried everything and hopefully this gets resolved soon. THE BEST IS YET TO COME :)
    I got to learn a lot from you and have a lot of respect. My prayers and wishes.

    Hope we get a chance to cross paths someday :) HUGS.
     
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    Hi Rajeni,

    I read entire thread just now.

    I definitely wont say, I feel sorry for your situation etc., You were taking it slowly, clearly and intelligently. It is a minimum responsibility of any person in any relationship/family/friend etc to give proper answers to CONCERNED set of questions and let know of the plans when other's people's LIFE is dependent on it, its a no cost thing, until now I did not either read it properly or did not visit this thread. With the amount of maturity you have towards life, he can become an open book and ask you to write things! I wish you have a stress free life going forward, I can imagine the pain/disturbances that you might be going through. I bet you wont repent for your decisions. STAY STRONG!

    It would be a sin if I close my comments without mentioning anything about your writings, you know me with my feedback how much I love your writings. If not for anything, at least to keep yourself much engaged you should continue your writing..

    Stay in good health dear!
    --PS
     
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    @Rajeni - I just want to say that I have been reading your novela "you are missing in my heart " and really enjoyed it.You write really well. Looking forward to the next episode. All the best with the Divorce case.You are truly a strong person who stood by her convictions rather than getting swayed by social norms.Its easier to spot that something is wrong but very difficult to go against the tide and take an action.
     
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    Dear Nandu! thanks a lot for your love and support. Means a lot!
     
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    Thank you dear Amica!

    And yes our travel! We definitely should do that, looking forward to it :)
     
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    Thank you for your wishes and support dear Sunburst!
    Thanks for reminding - Self doubt do creep up sometimes but trying to battle it down and succeeding in it to an extent.
     
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    Dear Amma, I can understand how shocked you would be. Don’t worry am managing well. I didn’t want to hide anything but our T kadai was one of the places I used to forget my problems and just laugh! Keep me in your prayers, need your blessings!
     
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