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All Is Well ,slowly Things Returning To Normal...happy For My Sister

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by blessed, Mar 24, 2018.

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  1. nakshatra1

    nakshatra1 Platinum IL'ite

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    I'm glad things are sorted out ...Even I had thought how can a son behave like this towards own parents . Still I feel the communication gap between the parents and the children Is too much and hence it was immaturely handled by son leading to so many misunderstandings .

    I do feel very sympathetic towards the DIL. upon doing good by talking to her SIL, still she was unnecessarily suspected and made culprit by MIL , insulted by SIL. The same MIL who had given silent treatment without valid cause now asking her to take care of the daughter after all this . Better for DIL to keep away from.all this , and your sis should not pull her into this unnecessarily .After so many big things happened , DIL suffered without any fault so better to just let her be .

    I can understand the worry that she was dating her senior professor but his financial condition due to divorce hardly makes him a villain so I wish you hadn't mentioned that as one of the prime reasons . But yes I agree professor should never date his student that's unethical so I'm happy it's broken up ..But it's not so easy or so final. Your sis should give max support to her daughter at this time to prevent any kind if reconciliation . She should also try to improve communication with both her kids so they feel comfortable enough to share their issues and not hide such big things . That is first duty of parents .

    On an end note, I admire you to be so receptive about even critical responses. It shows you are a positive and mature person .Hopefully you will be a good influence on your sisters family . I wish you had a son you would have been a good mil for sure .
     
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    @blessed +1 to this and many other responses on the too much details. i was thinking about how i could connect the other abroad wedding, single daugter, sisters, mil dying and gold sharing and much more, will not pull up much but i am sure it would be very easy to connect the dots and anon is just a illusion as i always say. a determined person would know where to look and how to get info..
     
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    Even indus ladies has no deletion policy . But it could destroy someone's life , atleast indusladies should allow everyone to edit their posts later on to remove details . One comes here in a troubled state of mind and they vent without thinking properly . Later they want to remove the unnecessary details but after 2 hours you can't edit the posts .

    It's not realistic to contact admins everytime to make small changes .. rather edit option should always be open so posts can be edited without deleting entire thread .
     
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    Hmm now I feel jittery about my second thread, If moderators can edit the main lines are allow me to do it I will be relieved .
     
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    Rihana I agree with everything you have mentioned but when my sister told me about her daughter's relationship it sent shivers down my spine, my niece or my daughter they are only hopes of our future, I just imagined if one fine day my daughter comes and tell's me that she is going to marry a man much older/divorcee or father of a kid, I am sure I would be devastated because I always dreamt that my future Son in law to be young energetic and with the same wave length to match my bubbly daughter.
    Same with my niece, the partner she choose may be a very good person but we know he is definitely not ideal match for her, though I am very close to her but I really don't have the guts to ask her about this, I am only hoping that she truly broke up with him and finds some one who is perfect for her.
     
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    Your said it Yellowmango :clap2:
     
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    @blessed too much details . Please ask mod to close the thread.
     
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    On an end note, I admire you to be so receptive about even critical responses. It shows you are a positive and mature person .Hopefully you will be a good influence on your sisters family . I wish you had a son you would have been a good mil for sure .[/QUOTE]

    So true :) @blessed You take every response in a very mature way and is so ready to self correct . A quality many don't possess .Glad everything worked out for your sisters family .
     
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    Honestly why did the girl just sit and watch everyone hating on her brother and wife ? I am guessing she was aware .Couldn't she have told at least her mom that she had a fight with her bother and sister in law and they don't need to take his behavior personal .Of course she don't have to go into the details .
     
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