Horoscopes And The Reality

Discussion in 'Astrology Numerology & More!' started by SGBV, Jan 29, 2018.

  1. silentlistener

    silentlistener Silver IL'ite

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    This educated engineer girl in her late twenties herself believes strongly and firmly in horoscope. (Leave alone have old age parents of previous generation. ).

    Because of her own strong conviction that life"s evens are closely connected to horoscope, for the rest of her life, she will continue to connect all ups and downs with her horoscope.

    Her life is doomed. You can't do anything about her. Just forget about her.
     
  2. Joyoflife

    Joyoflife Gold IL'ite

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    I grew up in a family which strongly believes in the power of deed and prayer. My dad does not care about horoscopes and astrology. Mine is love marriage and I also do not believe in this match making and all. My husbands side has a family friend who is an astrologer, so he did our match making as per mother in laws request and predicted a huge mis match in our kundalis. To reconfirm I had my friend do the match making again through her astrologer and he predicted the same. but my husband did not pay any attention to this and here we are very happily married for more than a decade with bubbly 6 year old sunshine in our life.

    My sister in law badly and only believes in astrology she also did a major match making check for her and my brothers kundali. Which predicted the perfect match of all gunas and all and forecasted a very happy marriage.Their marriage is also nearing a decade but only we know the inside there are countless fights, their marriage survived divorce many times and they are mostly together because of their child. I beleiv they should have separated but My parents and my sister in laws mother seem to bind them both together. My sister in law believes that my brother refused to do a pooja before marriage hence all the troubles. I beleive they both are oblivious to their faults and very impatient and hence all the troubles.

    Every marriage is a lot of work of patience and many other factors. Only astrology can not save it. I have seen many people succeed j because of their character, positivity, hard work, proper planning and right action not just because of astrology. I beleiv in good times and bad times although bad times are the greatest teachers. I believe having a blind faith on anything makes you blind which includes astrology.
     
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    Sunshine04 Platinum IL'ite

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    Curious. What's ur situation now??
     
  4. amunique

    amunique Gold IL'ite

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    generally astrology predicts only good and can be better things..
    for that matter no one will predict the future so well

    astrologer (good one) will only warn, we need to catch and decide.
     
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    Astrology predicts both good and bad.
     
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    Ragini25 Platinum IL'ite

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    SGBV - she is an adult and she has her belief system. Respect it, and stay out of it.
    Friends and great friends yes, but respect other people's beliefs and the boundaries.
    She is capable of knowing her priorities.
    She is an adult, that's bottomline.
     
  7. SGBV

    SGBV IL Hall of Fame

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    Thanks all :)

    I know I can't do much with regards to this colleague, as she is just a colleague and not more than that.
    Besides, she is an adult, educated and independent in her late 20s. Astrology is her belief, and I don't wanna change it by my disbelief.
    It is her right have faith in something she believes, and it is more of an emotional, rather one's experience. There is no science behind the depth of someone's belief.
    Like, I am religious, and I can't scientifically prove what I believe in. But it is my experience and emotions that connects me strongly with what I believe in. Other people may not understand what I experience.
    So, I am not gonna do anything with her, other than sharing my POV since she asked for it. Let her fate decide the rest.

    But I feel bad about her, and the girls who are sailing in similar boats because of this horoscope matter, as it is seriously affecting their choice of marriage.
    Their education and exposure only adds further burden to their life. Because earlier the uneducated women had no say in anything as they rarely know anything. They let the fate decide everything for them. They were happy.
    But today's women know something, and they know clearly if the man is compatible or not based on certain facts. Yet they chose to be blind, as they know it is difficult to find the right match given their horoscope dosha and all. It is much complicated
     
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    SGBV IL Hall of Fame

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    Update:
    The girl's side checked their horoscope and it didn't match.
    Mind you, the guy's side checked the same and it matched 90%; hence they proceeded.
    Now, the girl's parents are reluctant to proceed further; hence dropped it.
    The girl is back to her sad, sobbing mode cursing all the planets and gods for giving her such a Dosha, which not only delays her marriage, but also creates so much emotional turmoil in her family.

    I tried to make her see reality behind this horoscope matter. Clearly one of these astrologers is fake or making money out of someone's problem.
    There are plenty of them, and they are earning because of these poor people's faith.
    It is really heart-breaking to know a woman's life becomes a question mark due to some astrologer's greediness.

    But she says, it is possible that different astrologers can predict the same chart differently, and there are various ways to predict. So, she believes both of them, but chose to follow her family astrologer.
     
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    She is lucky and let her cry now. She will get what she should one day.
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    I think it's each one's fate. Earlier there was belief in horoscope matching . But now there are so many love marriages ,some are happy . When horoscopes do not match some prefer live marriage. Some parents themselves tell them to select their partner. In my husband's family some cases r like that
     

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