In fact IL is very addictive.. i keep reading a lot of stuff but I dont post much coz i get engrossed into reading.. i'm revisiting IL after a long break after my first kid..
The difference between New IL'ite and subsequent stages in the hierarchy here appears to be purely based on statistics. A new born baby can be a grandmother or grand father in the hierarchy within few hours., if he/she has reasonable speed over keyboard and his/her internet speed is okay. So, when stats decide the ranks, the question has to be reviewed and studied in different lights. It can be few things. A. whether the member is getting accustomed to the features of the site and graduating from the level of testing water to the level of feeling free in the water B. Whether he/she is using the newly acquired forum freeness to good effects and participating with quality and confidence in a very comfortable manner as if it is her own house C. Whether he/she are adding value to the proceedings or elegantly setting direction to discussions with utmost ease and respect. It is now matter of interests, attitude, time availability and quality of the member concerned what he/she will contribute to the forum. But, there are some born matures (in terms of entry in the Forum) whose graduation cannot be measured by just points only, though many other members may try to look down upon that "new Il'te till he / she gathers a bagful of points under belt. Never mind the expression please. Have a great Sunday.
I am not able to understand why titles are necessary . I am anew member and joined thinking its like a ladies club . Then I read about titles . What if , just to get titles peolle will be making posts and comments ? And there will be comparison like how much titles you got, she got , i got , like that . It may be like " Social Media anxiety " One other lady ( Kalpana santhu ) has said above , that posts will be forced . I agree with her .
Hi! I have a doubt. I am just a week old on this forum with 2 posts and some 50 odd comments, likes and 30 odd trophy points. Then how did I become a Silver l'Lite????? (Trust me, I did not bribe anyone for this promotion!!) Hope someone has an answer
Hello @GeetaKashyap Welcome to indusladies community. Looks like you got addicted to us all no one can bribe anyone here, you seem to be a friendly person so all these awards are coming automatically on your way.