Have Kids Or Job

Can you look for a job at your husband's place ?

 

This is a short-term job that will help him in his career and better provide for his family. I think it makes sense for him to take this job, even if it might affect when you can conceive a child. Even if you are working now, being pregnant will affect your whole life and priorities. Many women take breaks from work after they give birth, so that they can spend time with their babies. Now, if your husband does not have a job and possibly not get another job within the timeframe, then it would affect your family life and may put extra burden on you to work, despite not being physically comfortable to do so. I'm assuming you are in the US (because of Walmart), and it's not easy to work at minimum wage, and it's not worth putting on your resume. It's better for your whole family and your future child, if he takes this job.

Btw, do you have any other children?

 

Good luck dear.. Hope you find one soon..

 

How supportive is your current job? Would they allow you to WFH for a week, as needed? Also, do you have vacation time available? Maybe you can renegotiate your contract?

And have you asked your doctor about what is the best course of action for you to conceive? Do they think that losing this 6 month window might work against your efforts?

 

Hi

Dh job is really important, as bhumibabe explained, even if you conceive. Pregnancy childbirth and raising kid at least 6months baby (even to put in daycare) involve lot of time of work n money. Better for dh to start working instead of loosing a career. Assuming he's into IT. Years together gap is not appreciated n makes finding job more difficult so don't let him loose current opportunity...

Coming to your ttc. Have you met a doctor. Generally doc suggests to try naturally if all is well, otherwise some medication is suggested .. so please contact a doc and work towards docs advice.. meanwhile search a job near to dh place. And if you find ovulating either of you try to take leave n meet.