@Sunshine04 @aswathyk Thats unacceptable. Please do report those msgs. This is why i am so confused abt their presence in a ladies forum. This is like a support group for the ladies, to vent, ask for support, guidance, help, friendship n more without being judged or worried. If we have to watch out for these unwanted attentions / disturbances here too, then where do we go. It looks like they are using good forums like this to their advantage too. :|
Yes sure. I will report if I get any unwanted mesaages. I didn't got any unwanted PMs but got PMs from many male profile after I shared my family life issues through a Thread.
@Laks09 Hi, was trying to find an admin. Please advise how to have groups for women alone. I may not b talking for all but atleast many of the members come here n open up only bcoz it's a ladies forum. But men seemed to be interested in either advising or abusing as mentioned from the above members. I am not a sexist or anything, but is it too much to hope for a ladies group to b a ladies 'only' group. There are many unisex forums like yahoo, quora n many FB groups to name a few.
Yeah......If they show this much interest in their ladies problems, we all are happy...(not about all Men)
That is too judgemental @Sunshine04. We have some well educated, well learned, well experienced men, who have always been helpful and live a life that they are almost role models for many. @ashneys and @Ashwathy There is no guarantee a female id means a female. It is a forum that ends up with lots of hits on search engines. It is also your responsiblity to be careful and if you have issues that can reveal your identity think a lot before you share and also about all your details and whereabouts. It is not a 250 odd members, (as it was when i first came across il and i am still here after 11 yrs) and it is very hard to keep watch. The admin, the moderators can help when reported. Be cautious, be wary before sharing details even by pm. Think twice before you share fb details or phone numbers or even email ids. There is nothing called anonymous. We all leave digital footprints.. Enjoy !!
Thank you @Laks09 @Shanvy For new members, we do have valuable male members in this forum who have always been thoughtful and helpful. But leaving them aside, I do agree that there are male perpetrators from time to time. We have strict guidelines for male participation. And if we find their participation not right, we immediately take action. If you find any member's participation abusive, be it male or female, please do report their posts or PMs and we will immediately take action. If you have any questions, you can refer Forum Etiquette How to report a post? – Customer Feedback for Indusladies Zero Tolerance Policy – Customer Feedback for Indusladies Thank you.
