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drinking habit is good or bad??

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by BuviVishal, Feb 1, 2015.

  1. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    Just curious, how are you so sure that this will increase gradually?
     
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    sumanrathi IL Hall of Fame

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    this is tendency of Alcohol all Central Nerves system stimulant will make us addict / habituate like alcohol, drugs, caffeine, nicotine
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    OP, here are my thoughts. As long as they are not illegal, an adult should be able to decide for him/herself whether or not drinking is good for them. My husband was smoking before, knowing the health hazards very well. While I wasnt happy, neither was I nagging him day in an day out about it or asking him to prove his love by quitting (trust me, there are women who do this).

    Eventually, he quit. he just went cold turkey one day and never looked back.

    With drinking, my DH and I both enjoy a drink on the days we were not working. Now that I am pregnant, I stopped and since he doesnt have company, he also stopped.
    I think we as women should respect and accept that husbands are grown men and no children to teach them what is good and what is not.
    From my friends circle, none of us drink during weekdays.

    I am not judging you; I am just saying, men (and women) know what they are doing. They are adults and can handle any repercussions (if any) should this become a problem.
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    Thats weird because in my family my dad/uncle/aunts etc have been drinking since at least 40 years with no increase in their monthly/weekly consumption.
     
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    armummy Platinum IL'ite

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    Pot is now legal in some states , so is it ok if husband /kid has occasional pot .
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    My husband is over 18 and I belive he has some brains for himself to decide what is good for him and not. And as for my kid, I intend to fully make her aware of the things around her. Before 18, I take the call. After 18, she does.
     
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    We don't realize it until it happens to someone very close to us.

    I lost my colleague due to a drunken driver. She used to bike to work during the summer time. It was 7am nice sunny morning at the signal next to our office, she took a left turn and her bike was hit by a car who was making a right turn. She was a mother of 2-teenage girls and lost her life right at that spot. Every day, I have to cross the signal, at the side walk of the street, there is a bike 'spray painted in white' with flowers. That driver was already under prohibition for drunken driving. No mater what happens to that driver, her 2-girls are growing up without a mother at critical part of their life.

    May be, it is her time to go, but no one deserve to die like that.
     
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    good to know
     
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    @Admins...
    There was a post by a "culture nazi" which has been deleted.. please repost it.. I want to give a "moo thod jawab" to that idiotic MCP..
     
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    Pot is another substance unnecessarily demonized by the media.. When compared to alcohol, pot is a healthier alternative.. Pot is just a mild stimulant and its effect lasts only for 20 mins max, whereas effect of alcohol lasts far longer..
     
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