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This is just my opinion. I think you are over reacting. Could be becoz you going through postpartum. Does your husband look like Brad Pitt or Hritik Roshan? If not, I don't really think him talking to women over phone could turn into something serious. But I don't know your husband; his nature or his history. No one apart from you can decisively tell you what to do. You need to rely on your own intuitions. That said and done, excessive interference and nose poking in bad for any relationship - even husband and wife.

 

as far as, nothing goes wrong and you have some proof for that there is no problem in this. why cant you join the same group and share your views with your hus? when you love him more and possessive like this it is better to have the same interests like him. most of the men like to discuss about something in politics, their favourite TV shows, fav movie etc. if you start sharing with him and discussing all these he will not feel like talking with others on the same topic.

anyway, I didnt know till today that a man has be like Brad Pitt or Hritik Roshan to have EMA ????

 

Regarding the last line: you don't have to take what I said literally. But I often wonder when I see women here writing they are distrustful of their husband talking to other women. Why? What's the logic behind their fear ?Either the fault is with the husband, or the wife. The husband's fault could be his past. He might have had a EMA/EMAs before so the wife is constantly watching him like a hawk. On the other hand, the wife is terrible insecure, and suffers from some inferiority complex. Either she is not charming, good looking like her h and constantly feels she's not a suitable match for him; this fear drives her to think that he may go for another woman by dumping her.

I was just emphasizing on the second point when I wrote that line you picked on!

 

So far nothing seems too fishy to me i.e starting social group and interacting with members of this group. I am not saying there is no difference between a local club for star wars enthusiasts Vs an online one but you have to admit there are lots of similarities as well.

In today's world virtual communities has given the opportunity for many people to join/create social groups of their interest and share opinions and ideas with other people with same interest from the comfort of their own home. So more and more people are part of virtual social group than a local social club.

As long as he doesn't spend too much time on this and start to neglect you, I don't think you should be too worried about it. If it still bothers you then like Daffny suggested start to show interest in this tv program and join the group yourself. Talk to the girls he is talking too, make it a casual thing. If he starts to spend too much time on it & not fulfil his responsibilities as a husband & father then you might want to step in and curb his interest a bit.

 

Join the group and participate in the discussions happening...

 

try to divert your interest into something else what you really like other than this. try to show your husband you dont bother about that at all now, and you are busy in something else. the more you avoid the closer he will come.

 

ask your dh to talk to those friends in front of you and not to go outside.if there is nothing then there shouldn't be a problem talking in front of you.